Week 3: Post 2
I was super excited when I first read this question because I instantly had an example pop into my head. If any of you have watched Dexter then you know that the character Deb has the worst potty mouth ever! I always watch the show with my boyfriend and his roommate and they always mention how unattractive it is that Deb curses all the time but it is completely fine that male characters do. Why is it that when women cuss it’s unattractive but men think it is normal for men to use the same language? In this way I think that men and women use language very differently. In music we are seeing more and more women using bad language to express themselves and that is definitely more accepted than it is when men are using the same language and I find that very interesting. I think it’s because people see women as being independent and comfortable with themselves when they use bad language while men are just being rude and obscene. But to answer the question, yes I do feel that women and men do use language differently.
2 Comments:
I agree. I think that men and women definitely use language differently. The swearing example is perfect. When men swear it seemed to be accepted but when women swore it wasn't "lady like." I think that those roles are changing. I have noticed that women are swearing a lot more than they used to. I am not sure if they are trying to accomplish a sense of empowerment or if they are trying to erase their "lady like" image. Either way, swearing is becoming ever increasing in women. Maybe the gender differences in language are beginning to mold together.
I also like that you brought a TV example into it. It makes your post interesting and different.
Hey there! I totally agree with your example. When you started talking about men and women using cuss words in music it reminded me of that song that Christina Aguilera sings about all of the double standards that are placed on women. It's really funny because when men see a girl who swears a lot when she talks they don't look at her as girlfriend material or even attractive for that matter. They look at her more as "one of the guys." I think you had a great example of how men and women use language very differently. Good job :)
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